
Jing
The thoughtful listener
If you do not want the next rung, you may find yourself defending a preference you thought success was meant to make possible. Not everyone wants greater authority, visibility or the same kind of responsibility.
Ask what you would like to become better at and what you want work to leave intact. Mastery, useful contribution, adequate pay, dependable hours and relationships can all belong in a serious account of success. Their importance need not remain fixed throughout your life.
I would also distinguish contentment from protective withdrawal. Sometimes “I do not want more” is a clear preference. Sometimes it shields a hope that has been disappointed. You can examine that possibility without deciding that hidden ambition must be your real truth.
Try describing a good working year in observable terms. What would you learn, contribute, earn or protect? An account you can recognise in daily life may serve you better than a rung you have no wish to occupy.
Find a perspective 
